Saturday, June 27, 2009

Hi-ho, hi-ho, it's off to work we go...

Last summer, I did something awesome: volunteered at a local dinner theater with a bunch of my friends. I was in two shows, worked tech for one show, waited tables for tips and had an awesome time. I also was flat broke by the end of the summer.

So, this summer I decided to try something different, something completely new for me! I got a "real job." On June 12, I officially became a Walgreens service clerk. I have learned a lot in the past three weeks, and I would like to share a few little nuggets of this wisdom.

1. Every day has the potential to be "one of those days."
I never really understood what "one of those days" meant until I started working. Then I realized that EVERY DAY is just "one of those days." It's that phrase you say when you really don't want to talk about it, not necessarily because the day was bad, but because either too much or too little happened to really be worth the effort of telling someone. In my case, it's normally too little.

2. Creativity is a must.
When it's 8:30 and the store is completely empty, you've refolded every t-shirt in sight and your OCD tendencies are completely satisfied, it's an awesome feeling. Until you realize that you're stuck there until 10 anyways. This requires some creativity because if you don't find something to do, you will go crazy. I personally like straightening the Hallmark aisle; I get so many good ideas in that aisle. I also convert the time remaining in my shift to seconds (it takes longer because I do it in my head). If you have any other suggestions, I'm always looking for new ones!

3. Get used to being asked how old you are.
I've been asked twice. Once because the lady wanted to set me up with a guy she knew (he was 17; it would have never worked). Once because someone couldn't believe that I actually knew who Farrah Fawcett was. I'm sure it will happen plenty more.

4. One never really gets used to selling tobacco.
This is probably the worst part of my job. I hate tobacco. I can't even really stand the smell of it, which is bad since my register is right in front of the cigarette display (I chew Orbit Crystal Mint gum. The mint flavor is so strong, it dulls my sense of smell and helps me better tolerate it). And furthermore, I know nothing about cigarettes, pipe tobacco, chewing tobacco, or any of the accompanying paraphernelia. It's almost like a game trying to find the certain brand of cigarette that the customer wants.
But it's really sad, too. One lady came in today and bought cough drops with her soft pack. When I have asked customers to help me find a product because I don't know what it looks like or where it is, many tell me how good it is that I'm not a smoker. Some even sound regretful that they use tobacco. I told my mother about the first time I sold a pack of cigarettes, and she gave me some wise advice: pray for them. So now, I pray over those cigarettes sitting behind me. I feel like maybe I've sold less since starting that tradition.

5. Optimism is a wonderful gift.
I don't think I could work at this job if I were a pessimist. I make too many mistakes and see too many hurting people (it is a pharmacy, after all). I've had quite a few people come through my line who came by on the way home from the emergency room or hospital. I've heard some sad stories, just in the past few weeks. But the only thing I can do is smile and encourage them that things will get better. Sometimes I feel like just listening to them helps. So I'll keep on smiling and telling people to "have a good evening!" as they walk out the door. I may never know it, but I pray that simple act of kindness helps someone somehow.

I've learned a lot from having a real job. Sometimes it's funny, sometimes it's quite serious. And though I hope that running a cash register is not my future career, I know that I'll carry these lessons throughout my life.

And, yeah, having a job has greatly put a dent in my "summer fun" from time to time, but I don't really regret my decision. But, I'd better stop writing now and get some sleep; gotta go to work in the morning!

Friday, June 26, 2009

Learning to love

I've had the absolute honor this summer to work with my church's kids this summer during Wednesday night Kids Choir. They come from all different backgrounds: some grew up in the church, some started coming on the bus program that we recently initiated, and some just wandered into our doors. Some are a bit too hyper for their own good, others barely utter a word. All of them are special, and all of them have their own stories.

But sometimes, I admit, I'm too quick to judge those that walk through our doors each week. I had always been taught not to judge, and I thought I was a fairly impartial, "love everyone" kind of girl. Sure, some of the kids grated on my nerves from time to time, but I still could look past that and find something lovable in each!

Then I met 4-year-old Ashley* and her younger brother Todd. They started coming to Kids' Choir a few weeks before I arrived home from school. They were inseparable, and they were out of control. The director couldn't deal with just those two; she had 14 other kids who needed to learn songs and dances. And she expected me to be right next to her helping with the motions. My sister, who also volunteers with the kids, was running sound. So the only person left to deal with Ashley and Todd was an older lady volunteer whose disciplinary method was yelling and threats. And that wasn't working either.

I thought I had met my match, that there was no way to connect to these two children, that they were incapable of joining the group and behaving. But God had a thing or two to teach me.

One week, the director announced that she would be out of town that next week. As Wednesday night approached, the other volunteer had to schedule an emergency trip to Nashville that would require her to miss church. So guess who was left to run Kids' Choir? Yes, that's right: my sister and me.

Things were already hectic: getting everything together for snack time, finding the music and the words, making sure the sound system was actually working. Then the kids came tumbling in. The last two through the door (and I had to go outside and make them come in) were Ashley and Todd. Within the first 5 minutes, I knew that night had potential to go very badly if we couldn't figure out some way to keep them at least minutely under control.

Thankfully, we had enlisted the help of someone who knew how to handle some pretty unmanageable children: my mother. She made it her task to watch Ashley and Todd so that I could teach the other 11 children.

At first, they were wild as ever. Ashley spent an elongated amount of time in the bathroom when she first came in, and when she finally did come out, it looked like she'd been playing in the water. She treated Todd like her baby, not letting him leave her side and insisting on picking him up, even though she is not much bigger than he is. It was very distracting for the other kids and for me. I found myself getting more and more irritated with them. Even my mother, God bless her, couldn't put a dent in their behavior.

But about halfway through the night, two things happened. First, some of the older kids started talking to Ashley about how she should be a good example for her brother. Because it came from the other kids, she started listening a little. Secondly, my mother persuaded them to separate. At the time, I had no idea how she did it, but it worked! Ashley started learning the dance and singing with the big kids (who immediately just took her under their wing). And my mother watched and played with Todd. He still didn't participate, but he at least stayed out of trouble.

It wasn't until we were on our way home that the whole story unfolded. Mom had pulled Ashley aside and talked to her, and Ashley told her a little bit of what went on at home: how she (almost 5 years old, mind you) cleaned her room and the bathroom, how Todd followed her everywhere she went, and how she was really exasperated by having to watch him all the time but he was her responsibility. Remember her long stay in the bathroom? She was cleaning. Suddenly, her constant references to herself as his momma made sense. This little girl didn't have the chance to really be a little girl!

Then I found out what my mother had done to make such a difference: she had explained to Ashley that when she was at Kids' Choir, she didn't have to watch her brother. She could just be a kid. So Mom took over watching Todd, and Ashley got to be a little girl.

I felt really ashamed of myself that night. I had not even taken the time to learn about Ashley and Todd's story. I had just assumed that someone else already knew and had taken that into consideration. Suddenly, being upset with that little girl seemed like such a foolish idea.

Ashley and Todd haven't been back to Kids' Choir yet, but I hope to see them next week. And my mother has already volunteered to watch Todd so that his sister doesn't have to worry about a thing.

I learned a valuable lesson that night. Everyone deserves to see the love of God in our lives, no matter how we see them through our eyes. God loves each and every person in spite of how they act or what they've been through. The least I can do is try to show the same love. Yes, the kids will still annoy me sometimes, and sure, I'll have to be the authority figure, but I can try to better understand why they do something instead of always just telling them to fix it on their own.

Thank you, Lord, for loving me, and for teaching me to love those that You love. Amen.

*All names have been changed.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

The time has come...to talk of many things

Since leaving Cleveland to live at home for the summer, three fairly important things have happened that possibly could change my life as I know it.
1. I started helping with the Kids' Choir at my church on Wednesday nights. The pastor's wife found out that I was capable of learning and teaching small dances, and the rest is history.
2. I got a job. Not just any job, but my first job. I'm now a Walgreens service clerk. Working nights, weekends and holidays can be frustrating, but I'm thankful all the same.
3. I created this blog. This is my first blog. No, I do not count Facebook notes or contributing to the Editor's Weblog at LeeClarion.com (which, by the way, if Harrison or Michelle read this, yes, I'm still keeping an eye out for new posts over the summer and reading each as they come in).

Seeing as this is the first blog that I have ever truly owned, forgive me if from time to time I forget that it's here. As a dreamer, I have a tendency to be easily distracted by shiny objects, such as the beautiful new little Kodak Z915 that came in the mail today or the craft project that I started on for my mother's birthday recently.

I have so much to write, so many ideas. I'm hoping that they will all eventually safely make it to this little blog for you to read, hopefully enjoy, maybe learn from, and perhaps even share with others. In the meantime, I just wanted to say hello. I'm glad you are reading!

Blessings,
Sara D.